Learnt this in the Philemon seminar.
As human, we tend to judge how people are like based on our conduct. But conduct alone doesn’t tell as much about how a person is inside. Our conduct is based on our character, it determines what we do. But God look so much deeper beyond our actions and character; He looks at the condition of our heart. If our condition of our heart is astray, we can do something that is out of our character, we can’t be true to ourselves.. Hence, sometimes we got frighten or surprised that one can do something which is out of who we actually are.